Breaking Barriers: Adoption challenges in NC facing Black and Brown children
by: Greg Funderburg
RALEIGH, N.C. (WNCN) — Mez has spent most of his life facing the complexities of the foster care system.
“I have always stayed with grandparents, aunts, and uncles and been like the extra person on top of a family,” the 19-year-old said, reflecting on his journey.
Mez’s life took a turn for the better when he turned 16, thanks to the support of a loving family.
“The first meeting, I picked him up, and we had breakfast and just talked about how we did things in our home, and he was like, that sounds wonderful,” said Jerrie Teague.
Despite being turned down by 25 families, Jerrie and her husband, Daniel Teague, opened their hearts and homes to Mez.
“I said I wanted to make a difference, and it didn’t matter to me about race, color, or culture; it was whoever God wanted me to have. He was going to send it to me,” said Teague.
The Teague family became foster parents 11 years ago after having one biological child. Since then, they have cared for 46 foster children and counting in Alamance County.
Their journey has been filled with both challenges and rewards, as they have seen the struggles and triumphs of each child they have welcomed into their home.
Gaile Osborne with Foster Family Alliance of North Carolina says 1 in 5 foster youth become homeless within 24 hours of aging out of the system.
“These children as young adults will go out into the real world without that one person that can be their safety, without that person who is their confidant,” said Osborne. The Congressional Black Caucus Foundation found Black children make up a disproportionate percentage of youth in foster care and face lower adoption rates nationwide.
Fortunately for Mez, he beat the odds, thanks to the unwavering support from the Teague family.
“Within a year, he had accomplished his diploma, he had gotten his license, he had saved his money, and he had got a car,” said Teague.
On his 18th birthday, Mez took a significant step forward. The Teague family officially adopted Mez, changing his last name after he signed off on it.
“We went to the courthouse to file paperwork as a family, and two months later, we had an official adoption ceremony at the courthouse,” said Teague.
“It’s a blessing to be where I am today,” said Mez.
Jerrie Teague’s mission is unwavering. She’s determined to continue opening her home to those in need. “I just want to make a difference, whether it’s for a day, a weekend, a week, or a lifetime,” said Teague.
Today, Mez is working, living on his own, and, of course, stopping by the Teague’s for a good home-cooked meal.
The Foster Family Alliance of North Carolina can help you learn more about becoming a foster parent or just a mentor. If you’re interested in making a difference in a child’s life, consider reaching out to them today.
